The key to a good life is not giving a fuck about more; it’s giving a fuck about less, giving a fuck about only what is true and immediate and important.
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成熟是一粒苦药，但它是必要的。它是治愈成为一个爱发牢骚、特权感强、自我中心的小混蛋的疾病的药物。
Maturity is a bitter pill, but it’s a necessary one. It’s the medicine that cures the disease of being a whiny, entitled, self-absorbed little brat.
你总是在选择你在乎什么。关键是找到那些值得的事情。
You are always choosing what to give a f*ck about. The key is to find the things that are worth it.
行动不仅是动机的结果；它也是动机的原因。
Action isn’t just the effect of motivation; it’s also the cause of it.
别只是坐在那里。做点什么。答案会随之而来。
Don’t just sit there. Do something. The answers will follow.
某事越威胁你的身份，你就越会避免它。这就是为什么人们往往更努力地避免问题，而不是真正解决问题。
The more something threatens your identity, the more you will avoid it. That’s why people often work harder to avoid problems than to actually solve them.
成熟是当一个人学会只在乎真正值得在乎的事情时发生的。
Maturity is what happens when one learns to only give a f*ck about what’s truly f*ckworthy.
在每一天的每一刻，你已经在选择你在乎什么。
You are already choosing, in every moment of every day, what to give a f*ck about.
生活中最重要的问题是“我现在该做什么？”
The most important question in life is “What do I do now?”
生活本质上是一系列无尽的问题。一个问题的解决只是另一个问题的产生。
Life is essentially an endless series of problems. The solution to one problem is merely the creation of another.
美好生活的关键不是在乎更多；而是更少地在乎，只在乎真实、直接和重要的事情。
The key to a good life is not giving a fuck about more; it’s giving a fuck about less, giving a fuck about only what is true and immediate and important.
你的身份是由你愿意为什么而奋斗来定义的。
Who you are is defined by what you’re willing to struggle for.
某事越威胁你的身份，你就越会避免它。
The more something threatens your identity, the more you will avoid it.
对更多积极体验的欲望本身就是一种消极体验。而矛盾的是，接受自己的消极体验本身就是一种积极体验。
The desire for more positive experience is itself a negative experience. And, paradoxically, the acceptance of one’s negative experience is itself a positive experience.
成熟是一粒苦药，但它是必要的。它是治愈成为一个爱发牢骚、特权感强、自我中心的小混蛋的疾病的药物。
Maturity is a bitter pill, but it’s a necessary one. It’s the medicine that cures the disease of being a whiny, entitled, self-absorbed little brat.
你总是在选择你在乎什么。关键是找到那些值得的事情。
You are always choosing what to give a f*ck about. The key is to find the things that are worth it.
马克·曼森是一位美国作家、博客作家，以其幽默和直率的写作风格而闻名。他的作品专注于个人发展和心理学，旨在帮助读者以更现实和积极的方式面对生活。
